Only one may determine his/her value.
This is because the way we feel is the sum of all past experience, therefore no one is able to make any person feel a particular way because it is solely unique to an individual how he feels.
Moreover, when one gives personal power thus control over their magic of emotion, then there will be those always who project, categorize, manipulate, and then place others, to whom power is extrinsic, into the lower echelons of society where the mind is trapped.
This is not to say that one should always step up to the reigning command always; for it is beneficial, from time to time, to not exercise one’s magic, to not impose one’s will.
Seeing life through our own lens isn’t impossible. It gets to be difficult when we let others change the way we think of ourselves. People will express their views.
But, it is entirely up to you whether or not to let it affect.
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